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We’re back!!!!

You probably noticed that Candace and I took the summer off from blogging…..but not much else, as summer in the beautiful Pacific NW beckons all of us to spend as much time as we can outside:  hiking, biking, playing golf/tennis/hooky, gardening, dreaming, reading, barbecuing , walking on the beach, rafting, canoeing, SUPing, and just plain relaxing. So that is what we have been doing the past 3 months which means we have walked our walk of trying to live lives of balance.

My daily walk with Riley, our amazing English lab

My daily walk with Riley, our amazing English lab

Fall always brings to me a feeling of new beginnings, of new commitments and of renewed energy. The daylight hours grow shorter each day, bringing us closer to the hearth, the kitchen and to indoor activities. We are excited to share some of our observations about the seasons of our lives, so stay tuned during the next few months for our musings on hormone balance, optimal living and growing through the various stages of our lives with grace and gratitude.

Fall in the wine country: c'est magnifique…...

Fall in the wine country: c’est magnifique……

In September, we recorded a webinar for ZRT laboratory, based here in the Portland area: “What you always wanted to know about menopause…..but were afraid to ask”. We used a conversational format which we think you will really enjoy, as it keeps the information accessible and relevant. Click on this link to listen in:

http://www.zrtlab.com/webinars/everything-you-ever-wanted-to-know-about-menopause-but-were-afraid-to-ask

Don’t ‘suffer in silence’ ……if you are going through the many upheavals and changes of perimenopause and beyond, you are definitely NOT alone…and help is only a click away. Join in our conversation and learn how you can gracefully transition through hormonal changes. The conversation is back ….and so are we. So glad you could join us.

Balance is attainable : learn what YOU can do to sustain it in your life

Balance is attainable : learn what YOU can do to sustain it in your life

 

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This year is ‘the year’ that I am going to….

Happy 2014 to all of our wonderful readers and followers. Candace and I have been blogging together for 2 years and this is the year that we are hoping to take a synopsis of our book, with several chapters written  up in the format we think will be the most readable and visually lovely, to a perspective publisher and see what happens. We realize that there are scores of books written on the top of hormone balance but we think we have a unique perspective and style that is not only accessible, but that resonates with our readers. We have punted around many ideas(you have no idea how many!!) from publishing an e-book, to self-publishing, to throwing in the towel(gasp) ….But we keep coming back to the idea of a real, hold in your hand, prop on your shelf, cuddle up in your bed, kind of book as that is what WE like and what most of our friends/family members/patients/colleagues/acquaintance turn to for the kind of content we are offering. So we would like to hear from YOU: what do you like about our blog, what have been some of your favorite topics, what haven’t we covered that you want to know more about?? Of course we value your honesty as that will help us write a better book so please give us your ‘from the heart’ feedback. We will keep you posted as to our progress, but that is MP’s overriding goal for this year.

Oh no, we admitted our goal OUT LOUD…now that should motivate us(one technique towards reaching one's goals….)

Oh no, we admitted our goal OUT LOUD…now that should motivate us(one technique towards reaching one’s goals….)

What have YOU been saying that you hope to do, to change, to re-invent, to re-consider, to move towards or perhaps away from, in this coming year?  Every newspaper and magazine that I have opened this past week had something about weight loss, exercising more, eating cleaner, etc but one thing I did notice that was different this year was the wording of the articles. Almost every one alluded to the concept that our goals should be towards making sustainable changes, not radical ones. To do that , it helps to make small changes, ones that you can stick to (like our 10 day ‘consciousness cleanses’, something anyone can do and benefit from): not saying , “I will NEVER eat potato chips and sour cream again after work(one of my personal favorite guilty pleasures…)” because that is just never going to happen. It is so much more realistic to write down what you hope to accomplish and then identify the obstacles, your strengths, a timeline and then formulate a plan. We will keep coming back to this topic in the upcoming weeks and months but I just want to leave you with a few simple thoughts as you think about the year ahead.

1. It DOES matter what you eat. This is probably the single most important thing that you do each day in terms of supporting or hurting your body. You can exercise until the cows come home, but if you are eating a diet high in processed foods, sugary beverages, calorie dense/nutrient poor foods(most of these come in a box/can/or a wrapper, by the way), you will gain weight in all the wrong places and you will not achieve optimal fitness….or fit into those favorite pair of jeans.

Eat whole pieces of fruit every day, loaded with nutrients and full of fiber

Eat whole pieces of fruit every day, loaded with nutrients and full of fiber

2.Follow the wise words of Michael Pollan: “Eat food(WHOLE food), not too much, mostly plants”. Do this and you will see results, sustainable ones.

3. Spend a few minutes each day being grateful for the wonders of your body. Focus more on how your body feels and how it does whatever you ask it to do day after day, a miracle in and of itself.  Take care of your body: feed it whole foods, clean water, take it out for a walk, a jog, a hike, expose it to natural vitamin D and the elements like the wind, the rain, the snow. Take note of how alive you feel when you have spent some time outside or just being active. Your body will thank you by continuing to do what you ask of it and by sticking around for awhile.

Hiking with my wonderful black lab Riley: sitting at the top of the world and feeling like it

Hiking with my wonderful black lab Riley: sitting at the top of the world and feeling like it

4. Take time to sleep, to rest and to restore yourself. You need this more than you know(see Candace’s last post).

5. Make time for play, for love, for friendship, for prayer and meditation, for doing the things you love to do, for visiting someone who needs you to be there. Life often goes by in a blur so paying attention each day to the moments that matter and making time for the things that matter to you is crucial for living a life that has meaning.

Our conversation will continue. We look forward to writing to you and hearing from you in the upcoming year. Thank you for sharing your time and thoughts with us. We so appreciate all of you.

Take time to see and smell the flowers and other small wonders

Take time to see and smell the flowers and other small wonders

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At the finish line: day 10

Wow, well that went by pretty fast,  in retrospect anyway. Here it is, day 10 of the fall consciousness cleanse and I made it: phew! There were some challenges, some moments, when I almost caved in….. but just knowing that I am accountable to all of you kept me going when my own will/wantpower wasn’t quite enough.

This last weekend was probably the hardest for me in terms of not having that evening glass of wine so I purposely kept my days(evenings) clear of extra social gatherings. I did go to one party last week and then out with my friend Chris(who also successfully has made it through: today is her day 11!). Instead of wine, I had some perrier and water and it felt great.

So what have I noticed after 10 days without caffeine, alcohol, sugar and the whites? First of all,  my sleep was deep, filled with dreams and I woke up refreshed each morning(sometimes I was wide awake 20 minutes before my alarm clock and could just enjoy those last stolen minutes before getting out of bed). Second, my energy was more even throughout the day and particularly in the early and late afternoon. Previously, I often would reach for a cup of coffee at around 2 pm to fight the urge to take a nap, which doesn’t fit into my work schedule, imagine that! Third, I felt more satisfied and full after a meal filled with clean foods, each one a bundle of powerful nutrients. I stopped craving anything sweet after a few days, although by day seven I could have snarfed down some lovely rich chocolate. Instead I tried a new fruit, a persimmon: wow, is that one sweet and yummy fruit. Fourth, although I consider myself somewhat of a foodie, I pushed myself to try new things: quince, persimmons, carrot chips for starters. I also discovered some new teas for my collection:  sugar cookie sleigh ride(sounds decadent: it’s not!),sugar plum spice, pumpkin spice and several new green teas.  Fifth, my clothes are looser as my weight dropped between 3 and 4 pounds, which I really noticed around my middle: that dreaded menopot!

Overall, my mood was even, my energy great and my body feels strong and ready to gear up for the holidays. Most of all, I feel empowered in knowing that I CAN DO THIS when I set my mind and soul to it. I have heard from quite a few of you who went all for the ride, some of you the entire way, some for just a portion. However much you did, congratulations for even thinking about it, as thoughts become words, words become actions, and actions lead to results. Remember that small changes cause big shifts, in your thinking, in your eating and drinking patterns, in your hormone balance, in you and in your life.  Thanks for all of your feedback(sometimes people prefer to email rather than comment on the blog: soon we will have a Facebook page which many find easier to communicate through). We love hearing from you and sharing our knowledge and experiences back and forth.

Wishing you a Thanksgiving filled with family, friends, delicious food and beverages, relaxation and much to be grateful for. Take a few minutes to think of all that you are grateful for: the list is often endless and it helps to remember all of the blessings in our lives and to be present and grateful. That is the magic of Thanksgiving: a day with no gifts, no cards, just a day to share and enjoy one another.

My beautiful family: of whom I am most grateful

My beautiful family: of whom I am most grateful

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Giving thanks

It has happened again: the holiday season is upon us in just 4 days. I am always amazed at how quickly the time shifts from the first signs of fall to the coming of Thanksgiving. I love this time of year, particularly the traditions that have developed since Americans have begun celebrating this holiday over 300 years ago.  And Thanksgiving has two special qualities that I have always loved, even as a small child: all people, regardless of religious affiliation, can join together in the giving of thanks and more incredibly, this holiday is not about consumerism.

Rather this  day is  devoted to sharing the bounty of the ‘harvest’, which of course in our modern world, takes on a somewhat different , yet related form: we tend to ‘pull out the stops’ and pay homage to traditional dishes, as well as branching out to try new ones. The tables are laden with roasted turkeys, stuffings(of all kinds), mashed and sweet potatoes, soft warm rolls, green bean casseroles, cranberry sauce, gravy and of course what would this feast be without an assortment of freshly baked pies(pumpkin, apple and pecan, to name a few)? As we have become more health-conscious, many of us have added Brussel sprouts, cauliflower, whole grain breads and fresh fruit desserts to the menu. But irregardless, this is a day that focuses on celebrating one another in family and friendship and for taking the time to give thanks for the plentitude of blessings in our lives.

I would like to take the time, this week, to offer my thanks for:

~my family, friends, health,  dog, home,  work, books, music, art, personal freedom, the stars, the ocean, the mountains, my community, the beautiful state in which I live, my country, my faith, my sense of wonder and yearning for knowledge, my love of food and cooking, the joy of having a body that works and can try new things and my awareness that I can and should be thankful for all that I have in my life. I am also thankful for all of you who have taken the time to read our blog…and to join in our conversations.

A spectacular November morning on the Oregon coast: a perfect time to be grateful

I hope that this time holds special meaning for you as well and that you have much to be grateful for. As always , we would love to hear from you: what are YOU thankful for?

Wishing you a bountiful feast with those you love and hold dear.

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